I think we can all agree that sex is awesome, right? Be it a casual encounter with a near stranger or the intimate connection that comes from having sex with your long-term romantic partner, an orgasm is an orgasm is an orgasm. One of the keys to having the best orgasms ever is trying sex positions that make you feel completely comfortable in your own skin. That's not always easy, especially when you happen to be a big girl, i. It really doesn't matter if you're taller than your partner or fatter than your partner — that's something we all should know to be true.

Absolutely not! Bigger girls have amazing sex all the time. However, size can sometimes cause certain positions not to work so well. Instead, your man enters you from behind. Pillows, especially those made from memory foam, can help you support your weight in this position. Plus, doggy style is great for G-spot stimulation.

Originally published on Persephone Magazine. Please note: Fat sex is a very big issue heh. Because my area of expertise is limited to sex with size difference as a woman with a vagina, I chose not to explore other areas of fat sex, such as the mechanics of two fat people having sex or trans fat sex for women without vaginas.

Though certain positions don't work so well because of size, there are positions that do, and some positions can be tweaked. Fortunately, there are plenty of sex positions that are very, very possible, regardless of size. Incorporating these easy, super-comfortable positions into your repertoire can provide increased pleasure to you and your partner.